Remember this advice

It’s best to win without fighting.

When near, appear far.  When far, appear near.  Sun Tzu

A gentleman, a true gentleman isn’t only one who is well-groomed and dresses well. A true gentleman doesn’t only enjoy Johnny Walker Blue Label or poker with good friends.  A true gentleman leads his household.  A true gentleman loves and respects his woman…

Through hard work and discipline comes children, a house, perhaps a new car or kitchen of her dreams. Communicate, communicate, communicate your way through conflict, all will be well.  Surprise flowers here, a kiss there, everywhere are smiles even tears.

While at home, it’s dinner for two or more. Away with your boys, she gives the space. All day away at the stores, whether it’s purses or shoes, she too gets her space. While at home, your time is shared

While on the town, date as if it’s the first time together. If ever she is physically disrespected, or hit on in an unwanted way or treated less than kind. In no way over react, separate her from the conflict..address the individual and move on. If bad enough, send her home, soon enough you will both be together.

Returning to the scene…with patience, simply wait. In silence, observe for other sign and focus Perhaps, it was only immaturity…return home.    If any other way, be aware

If he is far, draw near.  If near, drag behind far. When the moment is right, swiftly seize your opportunity…

When returning home, she is well, safe and near.

Just like your grandfather, are ways of a gentleman. Through your Dad’s good friends, are ways of a warrior.    A true gentleman loves and respects…while a true warrior defends.